ok so i love love, despite never really having the best luck with guys, so when my friend sent me these questions, i just had to know what they were all about.
they are based on a study by arthur aron which explored whether ot not intimacy between 2 strangers can be forced/accelerated by asking/answering a series of personal questions.
these 36 “scientifically tested” questions are broken up into 3 sets,
with each set being deeper than the last.
the idea behind it is that vulnerability fosters connection/intimacy.
honestly, i think i’d seem pretty weird if i went up to random guys at theory & started asking them deep questions in an effort to find a match,
but i still love the idea behind it.
i ask people a lot of questions, i just love it.
#1 because i’m nosy,
& #2 because i love listening to other people’s answers.
it can really tell a lot about a person & obviously makes you closer.
i think it could be interesting to see how these questions really do impact relationships.
if you want to read the questions or learn more check out this NYT article: